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What I write with

August 21, 2025 · 8 min read

When I think, I write. Most often with a pen, staining a piece of paper with ink. I have amassed a collection of pens, inks, and paper with which I do my best thinking, and people are surprised to hear that I use different combinations of these tools to think in different ways. The bulk of my...

Jeanne “Boo” Hyde Scott Thompson

September 26, 2022 · 2 min read

I am Jeanne Varnell’s eldest grandchild. We called her “Boo.” A perfect, unique grandparent name that makes everyone smile as much as she made us smile. If you know anything about Jeanne Varnell, it’s that she was generous. She — like the generations of Hyde women before her — changed the lives of...

What’s in My Pocket

April 15, 2018 · 8 min read

In 1995, I became a man. I don’t mean that in a creepy way (I was 12), but in my 12 year-old mind I became a man because that Summer while at Skymont Boy Scout Camp, I passed the Knife Safety Course. And it was this achievement of getting all the answers on a multiple-choice test which granted me...

How I Read Books

April 2, 2018 · 9 min read

I read a few non-fiction books a week. At any given time, I’m actively reading between 3–10 of them. And since it’s something I’ve been doing since 5th grade, I thought I’d about write how I do it. I’ll get into logistics, but first let’s talk about goals. In grade school, there was a program in my...

How I Answer Questions

March 28, 2018 · 6 min read

The Greek word for philosopher (philosophos) connotes a distinction from sophos. It signifies the lover of wisdom (knowledge) as distinguished from him who considers himself wise in the possession of knowledge. This meaning of the word still endures: the essence of philosophy is not the possession...

What the hell does the word "community" mean in SDT research

April 26, 2017 · 11 min read

The other day on Facebook, Mark Schneider asked a great question: <blockquote "Within the SDT/OIT concepts - what defines a “group” or “community”? Is it as loose as “what the person FEELS/perceives” to be part of? Or is there a more concrete idea that may have been used for the research on this...

The next stage of our work with coaches: We’re partnering with Lift the Bar

April 11, 2017 · 2 min read

Habitry is officially partnering with Lift the Bar! Get ready for the biggest hands-on autonomy support program in the world. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Lift the Bar, it’s a place for coaches to get daily coaching, education and support for Personal Trainers. We have been working...

New moves for Habitry: Launching Betterish

April 11, 2017 · 2 min read

Good news for everyone who loves our podcast, the bettercast, and the work Habitry has been doing for over two years! The short version: As of today, Betterish is here! We’re doubling down on exploring real stories of change. You might’ve noticed we stepped up our podcasting to one episode a week...

Lessons from the YMCA

November 18, 2016 · 4 min read

This week, I was honored to be a keynote speaker for the YMCA of Canada’s annual summit. When the head office asked me in August if I’d be interested in, “talking to the Managers and owners from YMCAs across Canada about organizing, supporting, and training health coaches,” I felt like Renee...

Temptation or Willpower: What Matters in the Long Run?

November 10, 2016 · 6 min read

To kick-off a recent Motivator Meetup, Coach Stevo and I reviewed a new study. The researchers of this study asked an important question: What's more important for goal achievement: reducing experiences of temptation or exerting willpower? We summarized the findings below. You also can watch the...

The Motivator Trap (And How to Avoid it)

May 30, 2016 · 5 min read

I remember when I thought it was my job as a coach to motivate clients. It was 2014, and I’d been dreaming of playing coach for almost two years. Finally, I found myself coaching a group online. We had 13 men, who all who wanted to look better naked. Perfect. This was going to be my first-ever...

From Instructor to Motivator: The Art Of Coaching

April 5, 2016 · 6 min read

“How am I helping you?” is a simple question to ask a client. A short five words. Only sixteen letters. Yet such a powerful tool for building strong relationships. This friendly question may even startle the client you ask, but it will also make them think. The ensuing conversation will deepen...

How to Kickstart a Habit Again

March 21, 2016 · 4 min read

Authors’ note: in this article we go over some tested tips on how to get past dips in motivation. If you enjoyed this article, then you’ll love joining us for our live Q&A session, Nerding Out on Willpower, later this week! When: 2:00PM Pacific Time, Thursday 3/24 Recording will be available later....